becky's babbles

Part 1 Midnight Release

2012-02-14T06:00:00.000-08:00

As soon as I mentioned to Ashton that Target was having a launch "party" for the Breaking Dawn Part 1 DVD...she immediately agreed that we had to do it. I also talked Nicole into going with us...I knew that if any of my friends was crazy enough to do it, it was Nicole.

We got our ticket for the DVD at 9pm when they started passing them out. Starting at 11pm, a sneak peak of Part 2 was started...um...major let down. It was a 5 minute video...2 minute advertisement, 1 minute talk about the wedding and a 2 minute scene from the movie. And the scene was such an obscure part, unless you had read the book, you would have no idea what they were showing.

The "party" part of the night, was having us line up in the deli/meat section (which was really freakin' cold) and wait in line for them to pass out the movies at midnight'o'one.

Since we could've gotten the movie the next day without any problems, it wasn't necessarily worth staying up late, but spending the fun time with Ashton and Nicole was well worth it.

Only 9 months until Breaking Dawn Part 2 is out in the theatres!!!! I'm sure I will do even crazier things when it comes out!

A Gift of Decorations

2012-02-13T08:00:00.000-08:00

For my birthday and Christmas this past year, Tony had no idea what to get me and I had no idea what to ask for. One thing I knew though, was that I wanted to do some redecorating. So, we decided that would be my gift. (I was horrible and didn't get any before pictures, but I can share the final result.)

I started in the kid's bathroom. This is also the bathroom that our guests use. And I hated the decor that was in there...it was Hawaiian themed and never looked good. It is hard to decorate a bathroom that pleases a teenage boy, a tweenage girl and of course ME. I ended up going with grey and turquoise and love how it turned out. I still have a few more "art" pieces that I need to make and put in there, but I am happy with the results.

Next was a photo collage in our living room. My inspiration came from a blog I stalk...Kristen Duke Photography. She ran a series last fall (and is running one now) called Decorating with Portraits. The post that inspired me for this set up was from Eighteen25 (another blog I stalk). You can click HERE and see the inspiration. Here is how I executed it....

Also in the living room was a huge "art" piece that I decided to make. Tony did the manual labor and Ashton and I did the creative part. I love how it turned out. There are things I would change if I could, but overall, I am happy with it.

I still want new throw pillows and lamps for the living room, but I am still searching for the perfect pieces.

The next room to tackle will be the dining room. Right now, I have a huge blank wall and I have no idea what I am going to do with it. I am open to suggestions....

One Proud Mamma

2012-02-10T08:00:00.000-08:00

The PTA at Ashton's school holds an annual visual arts competition called Reflections. Last year's theme was "Together We Can..." and Ash entered and won 3rd place. I was so proud...especially since I didn't know she had even entered.

So, when the notes came last fall about the 2011-2012 Reflections contest, I asked her if she was entering again. The theme was "Diversity" and she bounced ideas around, but wouldn't nail anything down. Until of course the night before....ugh! So, she and I got busy and did a collage.

We were thrilled when a note came home last week telling us she had placed and would be getting an award during Rise N Shine. Of course, I had to go witness the moment.

Drum roll please.........She placed 1st!!! Woo hoo!!! I am so proud of her. My little creative lady! Congrats Ash! (Hopefully she will get the art piece back and I can post a picture again for you guys!)

Short Stories and a Classic

2012-02-09T08:00:00.000-08:00

My commute into work has been so LONG lately. Thank goodness I have had some good audio books to keep me entertained. Otherwise, there might have been some major cases of road rage.

The first is The Guy Not Taken by Jennifer Weiner. This is a compilation of 5 short stories with Weiner's typical chick-lit flair. I'm not a huge fan of short stories because they just don't give me enough. I always end up wanting more. And although that was still the case with these, I really enjoyed the stories and getting to know the characters.

Jennifer Weiner's talent shines like never before in this collection of short stories, following the tender, often hilarious, progress of love and relationships over the course of a lifetime.

We meet Marlie Davidow, home alone with her new baby late one night, when she wanders onto her ex's online wedding registry and wonders what if she had wound up with the guy not taken. We find Jessica Norton listing her beloved river-view apartment in the hope of winning her broker's heart. And we follow an unlikely friendship between two very different new mothers, and the choices that bring them together — and pull them apart.

The Guy Not Taken demonstrates Weiner's amazing ability to create characters who "feel like they could be your best friend" (Janet Maslin) and to find hope and humor, longing and love in the hidden corners of our common experiences.

The second book is one of my favorite classics...The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett. I have read this book several times and seen the movie several times as well. It never gets old. NEVER.

On the grounds of Misselthwaite, her Uncle Archibald's estate near the Yorkshire moors, nine-year-old Mary Lennox finds a walled-in garden that has been locked securely for years. With the help of Dickon Sowerby, a young local boy who can charm animals, Mary cultivates the garden, an experiences that both improves her health and raises her spirits. Ultimately, the secret garden proves beneficial not only to to Mary, but to her sickly cousin Colin, whom her estranged uncle has locked away in solitude following the death of his beloved wife, Colin's mother. Nurtured with love and tenderness, the secret garden proves it has the power to heal the heart.

First published in 1911, Frances Hodgson Burnett's The Secret Garden is a much-loved classic of children's literature.

Love is in the Air

2012-02-07T17:00:00.000-08:00

I don't typically decorate for Valentine's Day, but Pinterest has me totally obsessed with decorating for EVERY holiday.

I reused the red frame from my Christmas door frame and put a Be Mine banner in it. I got the banner on GroopDealz daily deal and love it! I added a few glittery hearts and voila!!

For our mantel, I hung an old barn frame that I've had in my garage for several months. I couldn't decide what I wanted to do it with, so I decided to keep it in it's raw organic state. The glitter jars and framed printables came from inspiration from Pinterest.

I love how it all turned out. I will have to keep it for the entire month of February just to be able to fully enjoy it.

Speed Dating...Family Style

2012-02-06T17:10:00.000-08:00

This weekend was a major date weekend for us!!!

We started out Friday with a Family Movie Night. We went to see Big Miracle...and I just have to say that I love, love, loved this movie! It was so touching. But for the life of me, I don't remember when this actually happened. And I was around 14 or 15 years old...surely I should be able to remember it, right? Anyways, this was such an uplifting movie. GO SEE IT!

Saturday afternoon, Tony and I went on a date to see The Woman in Black. I love horror flicks, but I am usually not brave enough to go see them. But I sucked it up, because this one intrigued me. The amount of jumping, screaming and cussing did not disappoint. The suspense was fantastic and the story was really neat. I even had a moment when all the hairs on my arms were standing.

Saturday evening was Daddy/Daughter and Mommy/Son date night.

Tony and Ashton went to the Daddy/Daughter dance at SouthMoore High School. They got all dressed up and went out for a night of fun and dancing. They both said they had a fantastic time!! I wish I could've been there to see it.

Quinn and I went to see Chronicle. The movie premise was very interesting. Was it the best movie ever...nope. But I had a great time with my boy and was blessed to get to spend some one on one time with him.

This was the absolute best weekend ever. There is no other way I would want to spend my time, but to be with my wonderful family!

Wildflower Hill by Kimberley Freeman

2012-02-03T10:25:00.000-08:00

I have read several books lately that are set in Australia. And man, oh man...do they make me wanna book a flight today!

This is an incredibly romantic story or a lost girl trying to find her strength...and then later, her granddaughter's struggle to find simplicity. I was able to feel a connection to both characters and could feel myself wanting them to both find happiness.

SPANNING THREE GENERATIONS AND HALF THE WORLD, WILDFLOWER HILL IS A SWEEPING, ROMANTIC, AND COMPELLING STORY OF TWO WOMEN WHO SHARE A LEGACY OF SECRETS, HEARTBREAK, COURAGE, AND LOVE.

Emma, a prima ballerina in London, is at a crossroads after an injured knee ruins her career. Forced to rest and take stock of her life, she finds that she’s mistaken fame and achievement for love and fulfillment. Returning home to Australia, she learns of her grandmother Beattie’s death and a strange inheritance: a sheep station in isolated rural Australia. Certain she has been saddled with an irritating burden, Emma prepares to leave for Wildflower Hill to sell the estate.

Beattie also found herself at a crossroads as a young woman, but she was pregnant and unwed. She eventually found success—but only after following an unconventional path that was often dangerous and heartbreaking. Beattie knew the lessons she learned in life would be important to Emma one day, and she wanted to make sure Emma’s heart remained open to love, no matter what life brought. She knew the magic of the Australian wilderness would show Emma the way.

Wildflower Hill is a compelling, atmospheric, and romantic novel about taking risks, starting again, and believing in yourself. It’s about finding out what you really want and discovering that the answer might be not at all what you’d expect.

Tie Tuesdays

2012-01-31T16:46:00.000-08:00

Quinn is starting a new movement at his school...TIE TUESDAYS! The first week, it was just him, but after several weeks and getting the word around, a handful of students and one teacher joined in on the fun today.

I can't wait to see how many guys decide to participate in Tie Tuesdays as the weeks go on.

Happy Monday

2012-01-30T07:00:00.000-08:00

Something to make you smile this Monday morning!!! Find something simple like this that will make you as happy as what this cat has found to make it happy!

Becky's Buys: 3M Command Picture Hanging Strips

2012-01-28T07:00:00.000-08:00

I LOVE moving around my home decor.

I HATE all the nail holes that get left in my walls.

I LOVE 3M Command Strips.

and....

3M recently came out with a new line of picture hanging strips...that I am horribly addicted to. No holes in the wall. They come off cleanly. Easy to use. And if I don't like where something is hung, it is a breeze to move and hang somewhere else.

If you haven't tried these yet, I highly recommend it.

Thunder Up!!!

2012-01-27T07:00:00.000-08:00

Our family attended it's OKC Thunder game a few weeks ago. We had originally tried to get tickets with Ashton's school, but they sold out really fast. Our friends, the Sorrells, were going with us as well, so when we didn't get tickets, Jeana waved her magic wand and was able to get us tickets through her b-i-l. He was so sweet to get us tickets and help the Brum family see our first NBA game.

Ashton has been begging for us to go see another one. She gets so excited now when she sees them on TV.

It was a really good game. We played the NY Knicks and won 104-92!!! Go Thunder!

We are all looking forward to our next game.

Worth the Listen

2012-01-26T07:00:00.000-08:00

During my commute and my busy (but mindless) times at work, I like to listen to audio books. So far this year, I have listened to two and enjoyed them both, even they are two vastly different books.

The first was Remember Me? by Sofie Kinsella. I love all chick-lit and this was no different. The stories are always light and just a little on the silly side. I just all around enjoed this one.

When twenty-eight-year-old Lexi Smart wakes up in a London hospital, she’s in for a big surprise. Her teeth are perfect. Her body is toned. Her handbag is Vuitton. Having survived a car accident—in a Mercedes no less—Lexi has lost a big chunk of her memory, three years to be exact, and she’s about to find out just how much things have changed.

Somehow Lexi went from a twenty-five-year-old working girl to a corporate big shot with a sleek new loft, a personal assistant, a carb-free diet, and a set of glamorous new friends. And who is this gorgeous husband—who also happens to be a multimillionaire? With her mind still stuck three years in reverse, Lexi greets this brave new world determined to be the person she…well, seems to be. That is, until an adorably disheveled architect drops the biggest bombshell of all.

Suddenly Lexi is scrambling to catch her balance. Her new life, it turns out, comes complete with secrets, schemes, and intrigue. How on earth did all this happen? Will she ever remember? And what will happen when she does?

The second was Newes from the Dead by Mary Hooper. Although you could call this non-fiction, it is really fiction but based on a true story. I am sure there are many gaps that were filled in by the author due to the age of the story and missing information...but the story kep me intrigued the entire time.

WRONGED. HANGED. ALIVE? (AND TRUE!)

Anne can't move a muscle, can't open her eyes, can't scream. She lies immobile in the darkness, unsure if she'd dead, terrified she's buried alive, haunted by her final memory—of being hanged. A maidservant falsely accused of infanticide in 1650 England and sent to the scaffold, Anne Green is trapped with her racing thoughts, her burning need to revisit the events—and the man—that led her to the gallows.

Meanwhile, a shy 18-year-old medical student attends his first dissection and notices something strange as the doctors prepare their tools . . . Did her eyelids just flutter? Could this corpse be alive?

Beautifully written, impossible to put down, and meticulously researched, Newes from the Dead is based on the true story of the real Anne Green, a servant who survived a hanging to awaken on the dissection table. Newes from the Dead concludes with scans of the original 1651 document that recounts this chilling medical phenomenon.

Both of these books are worth the read (or listen)...whichever you chose.

Sickie Sick

2012-01-25T07:37:00.000-08:00

I had the best intentions to spend the weekend writing blog post after blog post and finally catching up...but my stomach had other ideas.

I caught, what is affectionately being called, the "JH plague". It seems that a crazy stomach virus was passed out at our general meeting on Thursday night and I was one of the lucky recipients!

It hit on Friday evening while Ash and I were enjoying a fun night at my friend Misty's. Tony was at the fire station and Quinn was in Texas, so I had a fun weekend planned for our single child. Instead she got sit patiently by her puking momma. But she was so sweet. She rubbed my back, got me wet wash clothes and even made me a pallet by the toilet.

I decided that I couldn't keep this gift to myself though. I lovingly re-gifted it to Tony. It hit him on Sunday afternoon. So, while I am still sick, he is sick too. Who takes care of things when both parents are sick? Apparently, the kids...and they didn't enjoy it much at all.

I am on the mend and back at work today, but still weak and partially dehydrated. Tony is still on the couch, but should be back up on his feet in the next day or so.

Let me tell you, this was the worst stomach virus I can ever remember having. I don't want it again and sure hope neither of the kids catch it.

Falling Leaves by Adenline Yen Mah

2012-01-20T07:00:00.000-08:00

I started off the new year with a memoir I have had in my stack for a very long time...Falling Leaves: The True Story of an Unwanted Chinese Daughter. My heart ached for Adeline throughout this book. Not only was her stepmother a villain, her siblings were just as brutal. And through it all, she craved and sought the love and approval of them all. I highly recommend you read this memoir.

Amazon.com review: Snow White's stepmother looks like a pussycat compared to the monster under which Adeline Yen Mah suffered. The author's memoir of life in mainland China and--after the 1949 revolution--Hong Kong is a gruesome chronicle of nonstop emotional abuse from her wealthy father and his beautiful, cruel second wife. Chinese proverbs scattered throughout the text pithily covey the traditional world view that prompted Adeline's subservience. Had she not escaped to America, where she experienced a fulfilling medical career and a happy marriage, her story would be unbearable; instead, it's grimly fascinating: Falling Leaves is an Asian Mommie Dearest.

From Publishers Weekly: Although the focus of this memoir is the author's struggle to be loved by a family that treated her cruelly, it is more notable for its portrait of the domestic affairs of an immensely wealthy, Westernized Chinese family in Shanghai as the city evolved under the harsh strictures of Mao and Deng. Yen Mah's father knew how to make money and survive, regardless of the regime in power. In addition to an assortment of profitable enterprises, he stashed away two tons of gold in a Swiss bank, and eventually the family fled to Hong Kong. But he was indifferent to his seven children and in the thrall of a second wife who makes Cinderella's stepmother seem angelic. His first wife, Yen Mah's mother, died at her birth, and the child, considered an ill omen, was treated with crushing severity. But she was encouraged by the love of an aunt and eventually made her way to the U.S., where she became a doctor, married happily and, ironically, was the one her father and stepmother turned to in their old age. In recounting this painful tale, Yen Mah's unadorned prose is powerful, her insights keen and her portrait of her family devastating.

Snowtubing

2012-01-19T07:00:00.000-08:00

Here are more pictures of Quinn, Ashton and Collin and their snow tubing adventures. They ask to go every year. And every year they end up a little disappointed. It isn't that they don't have fun, it is that the session is only 90 minutes, which means they only get to go down the slope 3 times, so their time is spent standing in line.

38 Years and Counting

2012-01-18T12:26:00.000-08:00

Hello old friends!!!

I can't believe how long I have neglected you guys and my blog. Bear with me over the next several posts, as I attempt to get caught up and stay that way.

My 38th birthday was the week after Christmas. Although I've always hated having a birthday that close to Christmas, it was a great one this year. I got to share it with my closest friends and family.

On the Tuesday before my birthday, my best girlfriends, Nicole, Jeana and Karlin, took me out to dinner at Ghengis Grill. We had a wonderful time catching up.

On Thursday, my parents and sister's family all came up to enjoy my actual day! My mom made me a yummy "cupcake" cake!! It was yummy and too stinkin' adorable.

After we enjoyed cake, we took the kids to The Brick to do some snowtubing and then we went out to my favorite restaurant, Longhorn Steakhouse.

I had a great 38th and am looking forward to what this next year has in store for me.

Unplanned...

2012-01-09T10:45:00.000-08:00

I have obviously been on an unplanned blogging hiatus. It appears that it may continue on for a bit longer, so please don't forget about me while I am away. I promise I will be back and I hope you will all still be there to read my babbles.

2012 Resolutions

2012-01-01T08:48:00.000-08:00

Well, since I did a pretty good with my 2011 resolutions, I thought...why not do it again!!!

So, here is my list for 2012...wish me luck! (and these are in no particular order)

1. Get my scrapbooking caught up and organized...I am only a few years behind.

2. De-clutter my house! I've joined a 52 week challenge to an Organized Home on Home Storage Solutions that will hopefully make de-cluttering a bit more enjoyable.

3. Get my muscle tone back. After losing weight and being ill, I've not worked out in a VERY long time. So it is about time I refocus and try to get some muscles back.

4. I find so much joy in reading, so I want to continue to read 52+ books this year.

5. Focus on my relationships with Tony, Quinn and Ashton. For Tony, continue to go on one date a month. For Quinn and Ashton, spend time alone with each of them on a regular basis (doing something THEY like to do). And as a family, do more things that bring us together.

Happy New Year

2012-01-01T08:36:00.000-08:00

May your 2012 be full of family, friends, love and laughter!!!

Another Resolution Resolved!!

2011-12-30T07:00:00.000-08:00

Yep...you read that right! I completed two resolutions this year! Holy crow!

I track the books I've read through a wonderful online site called Shelfari.com. If you don't have a book shelf on there yet, you need to get one. As you mark books as read, the site will track how many books you read each year. In 2010, I read 53 books and my resolution for 2011 was to match or beat that. AND...I beat it!!! In 2011, I read 58 books!!! Where do I find the time?

I haven't done book review posts for the last several books that I've read, so I decided to sum them up with a short blurb on each. Maybe you can read one of these books in 2012 and let me know what you thought about it...

Destined: House of Night Series
I gave this book a 4 out of 5. Not my favorite in the series, but it is always fun to read about Zoey and the nerd herd.
In Destined, the forces of Light and Dark collide as their epic struggle focuses on Tulsa’s House of Night. Zoey is home where she belongs, safe with her Guardian Warrior, Stark, by her side – and preparing to face off against Neferet. Kalona has released his hold on Rephaim, and, through Nyx’s gift of a human form, he and Stevie Rae are finally able to be together – if Rephaim can truly walk the path of the Goddess and stay free of his father’s shadow.

But is Zoey really safe? Does she truly know those who are closest to her? And will love win when it is tested by the very soul of Darkness? Find out what’s destined in the next thrilling chapter of the House of Night series.

Crank Trilogy: Crank, Glass and Fallout
You guys know I love Ellen Hopkins. And she didn't disappoint in this series of books. I gave this book series a 4 out of 5 as well, but I preferred the first two books. They are very eye opening to how much drugs can impact an ENTIRE family.
The heart-wrenching bestselling Crank trilogy shows that addiction is never just one person's problem.
Crank
Kristina is the perfect daughter: gifted high school junior, quiet, never any trouble. Then she meets the monster: crank. And what begins as a wild ride turns into a struggle for her mind, her soul--her life.
Glass
Crank. Glass. Ice. Crystal. Whatever you call it, it's all the same: a monster. Kristina thinks she can control it. Now with a baby to care for, she is determined to be the one deciding when and how much, the one calling the shots. But the monster is strong, and before she knows it, Kristina is back in its grip . . . and it won't let go.
Fallout
Nineteen years after Kristina met the monster--crank--her three children are reeling from the consequences of her decisions. Instead of one big, happy family, they are desperate tangle of scattered lives united by anger, doubt, and fear. There is more of Kristina in her children than they would ever like to believe. But when the thread that ties them together brings them face-to-face, they'll discover something powerful in each other and in themselves--the trust, the hope, the courage to begin to break the cycle.

Ruined
Ashton found this book at her book fair and just had to buy it for me. She said it was for Christmas, but then she tried her best to make me take it. I didn't want to, so she gave up...or so I thought. When I went to bed that night, she had put the book under my covers so I wouldn't have a choice but to see it. I really enjoyed this book and was so happy she bought it for me. Another 4 out of 5.
And I am always game for a good ghost story!

The Christmas Wedding
This was a very sweet and simple read. With a touch of James Patterson mystery. I gave this one a 4 out of 5 on Shelfari, but really it is more of 3 out of 5. Not a literary classic, but fun to read and a nice "palette cleanser".
The tree is decorated, the cookies are baked, and the packages are wrapped, but the biggest celebration this Christmas is Gaby Summerhill's wedding. Since her husband died three years ago, Gaby's four children have drifted apart, each consumed by the turbulence of their own lives. They haven't celebrated Christmas together since their father's death, but when Gaby announces that she's getting married--and that the groom will remain a secret until the wedding day--she may finally be able to bring them home for the holidays.
But the wedding isn't Gaby's only surprise--she has one more gift for her children, and it could change all their lives forever. With deeply affecting characters and the emotional twists of a James Patterson thriller, The Christmas Wedding is a fresh look at family and the magic of the season.

Accidentally Dead and The Accidental Human
I read the first book in this series a few months back (The Accidental Werewolf) and loved. These books are a paranormal comedy...Great sex scenes and so much action it had me on the edge of my seat. I loved all of three of these even though they are simple. Both are 4 of 5. There are more books to come in this series and I can't wait to read them all.
It's a lousy first day on the job for Nina Blackman when a patient, loopy from the anesthesia, bites her. At least he was cute. But for real drama she can't beat the next evening. Nina wakes up with a set of razor-sharp fangs, bionic vision, supersonic hearing, and a taste for blood. But there's a good explanation: It's her patient, Long Island vampire Greg Statleon. Actually they're perfect for each other—if Nina's willing to commit to one man for eternity.
Wanda Schwartz is raking in the dough selling Bobbie-Sue Cosmetics-and she's a pro at recruiting new saleswomen. So, she's shocked when a man comes to one of her in-home parties-a very hot man. Heath Jefferson is sure to put some extra spin into a lot of women's color wheels.
When Wanda is diagnosed with a terminal illness, it doesn't have to be a death sentence. With a werewolf and a vampire for best friends, she has options that most ordinary people wouldn't. As Wanda ponders what to do about her mortality, Heath reveals he has secrets, and one of them is that his former bloodlust has turned into an old-fashioned lust-for Wanda. And he's already given up too much to lose the love of his lifetimes.

Maybe a resolution for 2012, should be to keep up with my book reviews on my blog???

Hobbling in to 38

2011-12-29T08:51:00.001-08:00

I've decided to enjoy my 38th birthday by being a little hobbled. Yesterday, I got in a hurry and accidentally kicked our chaise lounger. At first I thought I had only stubbed it pretty bad, but I quickly realized it was dislocated.

Tony was the fire station, so Ash and I called him to see what we needed to do. Of course, there isn't anything a doctor can do that we can't do at home and save the co-pay. So, we woke up the teenager (Quinn) and Tony directed him in how to reset my toe.

I was proud of Quinn for stepping up and helping out his momma...it can't be easy to inflict excruciating pain on your mom, but he was great. The toe is back in place and a little black and blue.

I guess it could be worse, considering this is the same toe I broke a few years ago after kicking a chair...are you seeing a pattern?? :D

Our Christmas Wrap-up

2011-12-27T16:00:00.000-08:00

First of all, I hope each and every one of you had a fantastic Christmas. Our was wonderful!

Friday night we celebrated with my family. My parents, my sis, b-i-l, V, and Collin all came over for some present sharing and yummy BBQ. We go to see Baby V open her first Christmas present...she was so cute. The older kids were "cute" too, but not near as precious as V.

Christmas Eve was pretty uneventful. Tony was working so the kids and I visited my friend Misty and her family. Misty had foot surgery on Friday (yes, the Friday of Christmas weekend...yikes) and she is pretty much confined to a chair. We took them a meal and just visited with them for a while. Other than that, I got lots of rest and just napped off an on all day since I wasn't feeling real great.

Christmas morning, we opened presents when Tony got home from work. It is always amazing to me how quickly the present opening goes...months and months of preparation and it is over in the blink of an eye. Later that morning, we spent Christmas with Tony's family and then in the afternoon went to his grandmother's.

Ashton's favorite gift was a 25 lb. slab of clay that Quinn bought for her through his art teacher. She has already made three different pots and can't wait for them to dry and get fired. I think that clay will be the gifts that lasts a year...25 lbs is A LOT.

We typically see a movie on Christmas Day, but not this year. Instead we relaxed it up and rented a couple of movies from Blockbuster. I was very pleased with the movie we watched...Seven Days in Utopia.

This was a great uplifting and surprisingly spiritual movie...I would've sworn it was produced by the same folks who did Fireproof...but nope. Either way, this is a great family film and I highly recommend it.

Well, that sums up our holiday weekend. I am looking forward to another long weekend and ringing in 2012.

Handmade Holiday

2011-12-27T06:00:00.000-08:00

I love making gifts for friends and family. I get to think of that person as I make their gift.

Every year we give goodies to our friends, family and neighborhoods...they get spicy&salty chex mix and sweet&chocolatey no-bake cookies. The challenge this year was doing it on a tighter budget. So our list of recipients was a little shorter and then I also had to figure out how to package it cheaper. The cookies to our neighbors were packaged in wrapped pringles containers and our family&friends go their girts in wrapped cup holders from Sonic. Pretty creative and thrifty, if you ask me.

For my sister and sweet Baby V, I made a shadow box to display one of V's newborn pictures and outfits. I love how it turned out and my sister loved it too.

My m-i-l loved my earring holder, so I made her an 8x10. I used a front opening shadow box again and then some metal mesh I found at Hobby Lobby. I really like how her's turned out...I may be re-doing mine.

The final handmade gift was for my bestie Nicole. She has an insane obsession with magazines...I think she gets a couple in her mail every day. So, I re-purposed a magazine by making a cross out of the pages. Now before you freak, this was not an original idea. You can see the complete tutorial by clicking HERE.

I find so much joy in making gifts for friends and family, but I have to admit...I stress over it A LOT. I want them to love it as much as I love making it for them. I try not to barrage them with too many "are you sure you like it" questions.

Now, it's time to finish some of the projects I have started for myself.

Carollers Calling

2011-12-26T16:31:00.000-08:00

Last week, the 5th and 6th graders at Ashton's school went carolling to houses in our neighborhood. Since we are across the street from the school and Tony would be home from the fire station, I volunteered him to be a victim...um...recipient...of such holiday cheer.

I'm sure it was a sight to see over 100 kids walking around our neighborhood.

What a GREAT Christmas Surprise!!!!

2011-12-23T17:23:00.000-08:00

Happy Holidays

2011-12-21T09:02:00.000-08:00

Holiday Performances

2011-12-21T07:32:00.000-08:00

If the holidays weren't already busy enough with shopping, creating, baking, wrapping, parties, etc, etc...with kids in activities, there are also programs and recitals as well. Whew! It can be exhausting, but it is VERY rewarding.

On Saturday, Ashton's dance studio put on their Christmas recital. She is at a new studio this year, so I wasn't sure what to expect...and man...that recital was long. Ashton performed in two numbers for Tap and Jazz. She did the best I have ever seen her dance. I was so proud of her. We also got to see our friend's Madi and Abby dance solos and they were both wonderful. I was especially awed by Madi...she rocked it! Amazing!

Last night was Quinn's winter band concert. It was a combination of the different bands at SouthMoore HS and the Junior High band. Ashton and I didn't get to go (long story), but we were told they all did a GREAT job! We are looking forward to seeing what being in the HS band will bring for Quinn.

It makes this mamma proud to see her kiddos enjoy themselves and have the confidence to do the things they do.

Mid-week Funny

2011-12-20T08:52:00.000-08:00

We don't own a computer for our family use. I know, I know...we still live in the stone ages. So if there is a need to use a computer we use the one from my work...tsk tsk...totally against the rules, but what's a family to do?

One of the things that gets done on this computer is iTunes for our music and Tony's iphone. Well, every time Tony hooks up, it syncs his phone and my WORK outlook calendar together. For the life of us, we cannot figure out why it keeps doing it...even when we "un-click" the sync to Outlook.

Anyways...my loving husband has an "I {heart} My Wife" icon associated with my work contact information in his phone. So, when he syncs up, it adds that contact (even though I don't need my OWN contact info....) with the icon (see below).

Well, guess what I just sent to over 50 of my peers??? A business email with the icon in the upper right corner, since it is associated with my work email contact info. Yep! They all now know that I Love My Wife...ugh! I can only imagine what some of these people are thing. Just shoot me now!

Resolution Complete

2011-12-16T12:00:00.000-08:00

Boo yah!

I actually completed a resolution in 2011. Hard to believe...I know!

The resolution was to go out on a date with my hubby every month. You wouldn't think finding one night to go out on a date would be that hard...but it was much harder than I thought.

Some months were all-out-fancy dates....other months were just moments together without the kids. But I am so glad we made our time together a priority this year.

It is my goal to keep the priority every year going forward.

Here are some highlights from our year of dates....
- Burn the Floor at the Civic Center
- Chips for Charity
- Movie, movie, movies and more movies
- A stolen afternoon lunch
- Running errands without the kids

Our last and final date of 2011 was this afternoon. Tony came up to my work and we went to lunch together. I've learned that it isn't about what you do or how much money you spend, it is that you find time to nurture the relationship that was given to you by God!

Cute Spelled with a "V"

2011-12-15T18:43:00.000-08:00

My sister got extremely ambitious for her hubby's Christmas present this year. About a week and a half ago, she decided to do an Anne Geddes inspired calendar with the cutest little model. I thought it was a great idea, but I also thought she was nuts for undertaking such a huge project with such a short period of time to get it done.

Well, she totally surprised me and the end result is adorable.

Christmas...Book Club Style

2011-12-15T06:30:00.000-08:00

Last Friday was my book club Christmas party. We started the night at Seven47 for dinner. We had reserved The Vault which is a neat room there that you can reserve for free. I love the food at Seven47 and the atmosphere is fantastic.

After dinner, we came back to my house for a little book talk. After we shared books, we enjoyed some fantastic desserts and then had a fun dirty santa game...book club style.

I can't believe I have been in this book club for three years now. The group has evolved over the years, but one thing is certain...we are a group of girls that loves books and loves to share them with each other.

I can't wait to see what 2012 brings for this awesome group.

UH-Maze-Ing!!!

2011-12-14T14:28:00.000-08:00

Warms My Cockles

2011-12-09T06:00:00.000-08:00

This little girl is too dang cute. I can't help but smile every time I see this commercial.

Updates from Ash

2011-12-08T11:28:00.001-08:00

I love seeing these pics and knowing that she is safe and having a great time. But man, oh, man....they make me miss her even more. Thank goodness they are coming home tomorrow.

Work Arrangement

2011-12-08T08:00:00.000-08:00

Have you ever had your boss schedule a meeting that made your stomach lurch into your throat? Well, I did...last week. The meeting subject was "Work Arrangement". I knew immediately that it had to do with me still not working in the office full time and boy was I dreading that conversation.

So, effective last Friday, I am back in the office full-time. For all of you that don't have the luxury of working from home, I know you are scoffing at me. What's the big deal right? Well, with POTS, it physically hurts me to sit at work for 8 hours a day. My dizzy spells get worse and all I want to do when I get home is sleep. So, I feel like poo and my family really gets the raw end of the stick.

I am hoping I will eventually acclimate and be somewhat functional in the evenings and on the weekends. I guess only time tell. Only happy thoughts, right!

Picture with a View

2011-12-07T16:00:00.000-08:00

I got this picture from another one of the mother's that went on the trip with the school this week. Man, they look like they are having a great time.

Jingle Mingle

2011-12-07T11:21:00.000-08:00

Last week was the annual JH Jingle Mingle. It's always so much fun to see each other all dressed up and meet the significant others. Unfortunately, Tony was working this year, so I played third wheel with my friend, Nicole, and her hubby, Matt. (Thanks for letting me hang guys!)

This year's event was at Rococo's in NorthPark Mall. If you haven't been there, it is super yummy. And they really took care of our large group well.

Of course we had to play Dirty Santa and, as always, all gloves were off.

This was my first gift! Unfortunately, I was number 3...so the chances of getting to keep it were slim.

So...of course it go stolen. Then I opened an awesome giftcard and lost it immediately. This is what I ended up with. (I am generally an OU fan and our family isn't huge on watching football...so it is very ironic that I got this.)

Can't you see the excitement on my face. (btw...this picture has given me several moments of laughter...hehehe.)

I love the holidays and I am thankful to have such a wonderful group to celebrate with.

Heebie Jeebies

2011-12-07T06:45:00.001-08:00

Tony and I received this text last night from one of Ashton's teachers. What I want to know...who is this kid and what have they done with my daughter?

This picture makes me wanna hug my baby...minus the snake of course ;)

Christmas Countdown

2011-12-06T12:30:00.000-08:00

Every year we do some type of countdown to Christmas for the kids. This year, Ashton wanted something new and different....so I bought a frame and whipped out the cricket the other night. This is what we came up with...

..pretty darn cute if you ask me. Cheap, fast and easy! Just the way I like it!

Christmas Decor

2011-12-06T06:50:00.001-08:00

My decorations all have a central theme this year...they were all inspired by Pinterest. I just love getting new ideas, especially ones that use things that I already have around the house.

These were kind of hard. They are card stock with the images cut out of them. They took far too much time, but by the time I figured that out, I was already half finished, so I just willed myself to go on.

I have always wanted little trees by our front door. We had the pots in our attic, so we spray painted them black. The trees are made from tomato cages that are wrapped in garland and lights. Super easy and cheap.

I found this frame in my closet (with a really old family pictures of us...yikes!) and spray painted it red. Then I spray painted some pine cones in really pretty bright colors and voila...a frontdoor "wreath".

There was no repurposing on this, but since we have to use a tiny little table tree (thanks to Sookie), I wanted to do a little more decorating. So we bought shatter proof ornaments and draped them over the curtain rods.

I just love to sit in the house and enjoy all of the decorations. It feels so Christmasey!!

Healthy Fear

2011-12-05T13:04:00.000-08:00

Tony and Quinn put the lights up on our house last week while it was still somewhat pretty outside. The best part, though, is that Tony made Quinn do the roof work...and Quinn has a very healthy fear of heights.

I couldn't help but laugh and point at him a little...but I hugged his sweet neck when he was back on firm ground.

Just a Bit Quieter

2011-12-05T08:19:00.000-08:00

Our house will be a little quieter this week. My mom and Ashton left this morning with Ashton's 5th grade class to spend a week at Camp Classen. Can you imagine camping in this cold? They will be in cabins and thank goodness the cabins have heat.

I know they will have a great time, but I am already missing my girl. I have a little sad feeling in my stomach and throat right now, like I could cry if I let myself...but I won't do that. They will be home Friday and hopefully I survive the time apart.

Convo w/ Quinn

2011-11-30T16:16:00.000-08:00

I hope this translates well in writing, cause we got a pretty good laugh over this conversation.

Me: "Quinn!! It's time for dinner!"
Quinn: "What?" (as he is walking out carrying his xbox controller)
Me: "Dinner! You didn't ask if you could play xbox, you need to log off. And you need to practice your trumpet and read tonight."
Quinn: "Ok"

So, we sit down to eat our frozen pizza...yes, I am that good of a mom!! :D

Quinn: "Mom...this is what I'm gonna do...I'm gonna take a shower, then play and then read."
Me: "What? You are not going to tell me how you are gonna do things. You can take your shower but you need to read." (this was said very meanly with the major mom look on my face)
Quinn: he didn't say anything back...he just stormed out to take his shower

Quinn takes shower and I clean up kitchen (okay...not really, but I think I was pretending to clean the kitchen...I was still stewing a bit). Quinn walks into the kitchen and says...

Quinn: "So, when do you want me to practice my trumpet"
LIGHTBULB! (You can say that like Gru from Despicable Me if you want to.)
Me: "Oh! You meant play your trumpet...not play xbox." doubled over laughter ensues..."I am so sorry I yelled at you. I totally thought you were telling me you were gonna play your xbox. I am so so sorry."

It was such a funny situation. I felt horrible after but we got a really good laugh out of it and hugged it out afterwards.

A 5 Day Holiday!!!

2011-11-29T12:14:00.000-08:00

I hope each of you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and were able to think on those things that you give thanks for this year.

Our Thanksgiving plans originally had us going to see my sister and family, but that was plan was derailed by a stomach bug that hit their family. So, we quickly came up with a plan B. I had already scheduled Wednesday off for the trip, so I still took the day off and got 5 full days off work! It was FANTASTIC!!! I really missed seeing my sis and her fam, but it felt so nice to not have any plans for a full weekend.

On Wednesday, we hung out at our house and got our Christmas decorations up. I am so happy with our decor this year...it feels so warm and cheery. Thursday was an impromptu dinner at my parent's house. We hung out there all day and enjoyed a lot of relaxation. The rest of the weekend was spent watching TV and movies and doing a lot of crafting. I can't wait to share all of my projects that were inspired by Pinterest.

Saturday night, Ashton and I went to the movies with my friend, Jeana. The Warren had a sneak preview of We Bought a Zoo...which comes out Christmas weekend. This was a wonderfully beautiful family movie that is based on a true story. So, pack up your family and go see when it comes out.

I have lots to blog about, but I will try to pace myself to avoid overwhelming you with multiple posts in one day.

Pins and Needles

2011-11-25T16:04:00.000-08:00

This is Reneseme in Breaking Dawn: Part 2. I can hardly wait. She is gorgeous!!!

What A Mighty, Mighty Good Man!

2011-11-22T08:24:00.000-08:00

(Are you singing the song??? "What a man, what a man, what a man, what a might good man")

Tony is patient. Tony is kind. Tony must be a saint. Because he puts up with me.

Numerous times a week, you can hear a conversation started by me with "I've been thinking....". What this means to Tony is that I have some new project that he's going to be helping me with. And typically he takes it all in stride and helps me turn my idea into reality.

One such item was a recycle can for the JH office. After seeing how many plastic bottles we were throwing at our meetings, I decided we need a pretty way to dispose of them (and then of course haul them off to the recycling center). So, we took a normal galvanized trash can and painted it cream, cut a hole in the top and added some prettiness to it.

Tony got to do the power tool work and I made it look all pretty. I sure am lucky to have such a patient husband.

Finally! Breaking Dawn, Part 1!

2011-11-21T14:30:00.000-08:00

We have got to finally see this first part of Breaking Dawn. And, man, oh man...it was PERFECT! It was everything I had imagined. But after waiting a year and a half for part 1, now we have wait another year for the conclusion of the Twilight Saga.

The wedding was amazing. The honeymoon was perfect. And the birth scene was disgustingly fabulous.

I felt like a giddy teenager throughout this movie. And I had all of my book geeks friends with me. It was such a fantastic evening.

Except...our night was not without drama. During the last 15 minutes of the movie, in the balcony where we paid $18 per ticket, a drunk women slipped on a menu and knocked herself out. (Stupid) So chaos ensued and we missed the last of the movie while being distracted by people running around.........and then they turned the lights up on us before the "secret scene" at the end of the credits! Needless to say we were pissed but our gal Becky K had our back and got us all vouchers for a free balcony night!!!!!!! I know, someone was knocked out but maybe if she wasn't a crazy drunk that would not have happened? But at least The Warren made things right and we got free passes to come back.

Nicole and I had awesome matching t-shirts! Of course, we had some people laugh at us, but we rocked our shirts with style.

I am actually seeing it again with Tony, the kids, my parents and my friend Jeana (who wasn't able to go with the big group). I cannot wait to see it again and watch the ending that I missed during all the craziness!

I am such a stinkin' Twi-Hard!

I {Heart} ....

2011-11-18T08:40:00.001-08:00

....Pinterest. Yes, yes, I know I am a little to the party. But as I have read so much about Pinterest obsessions, I now much confess that I am not immune. In fact, Tony affectionately calls it my Pinterest Porn.

I just love all of the decorating ideas and inspiration that it gives me. It completely gets my creative juices flowing again.

But what I really, really love and am beyond obsessed with is SPRAY PAINT. The thought of being able to customize anything to match what I need is so amazingly easy. Why haven't I thought it about before? Is this another one of those "not so smart" moments of mine?

This week alone, I have bought 6 different colors of spray paint. And at this very moment, there are 3 frames drying in my garage. I love it so much. Can't find the decor that I am looking for at Hobby Lobby? I find something close and just paint it to match. Geez! How simple!!!!

Now, I have to figure out something creative to do with the empty spray paint cans....tee hee hee.

Has Pinterest caused you to have a "DUH" moment?

Birthday Party Fun

2011-11-16T07:25:00.000-08:00

We had Ashton's birthday party on Saturday. It was an all day event, that really turned out great.

We took the kids to Paint'N Station to paint some pottery that morning. We all had a lot of fun, but man, an hour and a half sure goes by fast when you are trying to finish a project.

After, we had cake, ice cream and gifts at the house.

Ashton's friends stayed the rest of the evening for some crafting, movies and a sleepover. I really thought I would regret having the kids at the house for a full 24 hours, but it went a lot better than I would've thought. Instead of them trying to cram tons of fun into a few hours, they had all day to hang out and do the things they wanted to do.

I hope Ashton enjoyed her 11th birthday! I'm still in shock that my baby girl is 11. Wow! I feel old!

Sookie even got in on the party action by hiding behind the tissue and gift bags. I think she really thought we couldn't see her. tee hee hee

Each Day

2011-11-14T09:07:00.000-08:00

Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-09T12:44:00.001-08:00

Ahhhhh!

2011-11-09T12:36:00.000-08:00

She Is....

2011-11-08T08:00:00.000-08:00

She is beautiful.

She is crazy.

She is a drama queen.

She is my sunshine.

She is smart.

She is sarcastic.

She is creative.

She is my daughter and today she is eleven. Happy Birthday sweet girl. There are many, many more adjectives, but I don't have enough time to list them all.

Shake, Rattle and Roll

2011-11-06T17:33:00.000-08:00

It has been very interesting to live Oklahoma the last couple of days. We've had two earthquakes. And the epicenters were in two different towns. We didn't feel the first one that happened on Friday night in Prague. But the one that hit last night, with the epicenter in Sparks, woke me from an Ambien induced sleep. And man, oh, man...it really tripped me out. It was a 5.6 on the Richter scale.

So, in honor of the earthquakes, I've decided to do a fun little post about my favorite natural disaster movies. Do you have any favorites that didn't make my list? Leave a comment and let me know.

Tornado...has to be The Wizard of Oz.

Famine

Tsunami/Asteroid...Deep Impact. I loved this film and remember bawling my eyes out at the end.

Volcano...Dante's Peak with Peirce Brosnan. I mean, really? It's Peirce Brosnan..what more is there to say?

Avalanche...Vertical Limit. Loved it!

Fire...Always. This is one of my all time favorite movies.

Today and Tomorrow

2011-11-04T08:00:00.000-07:00

Is Sub Blitz!!!

If you didn't get your pre-order in, please come visit us at Mayfair Baptist Church from 11am - 2pm each day...2715 NW 50th Street, OKC.

Sandwiches are $6 and chips and drinks will also be available.

Proceeds from the sale of the sandwiches helps JH continue to make a positive impact on our community. Members volunteer at local organizations and fund grants to help provide vital services.

Fall Decor Project: Under $10

2011-11-03T12:00:00.000-07:00

I found this idea on one of the blogs I stalk, eighteen25. I just loved it and had to do my own impression of it. Of course, their pumpkin is much cuter than the one I found, but I think it turned out pretty well.

You can click HERE to see the full tutorial. But if you hit Hobby Lobby just right, you can get all of your supplies for under $10. Now, who doesn't love a cheap project?

Argh Matie!

2011-11-02T13:50:00.000-07:00

For Halloween this year, Ashton decided to be a Pirate.

Yes, I know you are asking...why didn't she just wear the Geisha costume?

Well, we ordered her costume on a Saturday morning. About an hour later, we found out about the Asian Themed Party...so, she got two costumes this year.

She had a lot of fun in both costumes. While she went Trick or Treating with friends, Quinn and I passed out candy to the little trick or treaters. The weather was beautiful, so we sat outside the entire night.

It was a great Halloween. I hope you enjoyed yours, as much as we enjoyed ours. It's time to transition my decor to Fall and start building up my endurance for Christmas!

Only 53 days left!!!

Asian Themed Birthday

2011-10-31T17:00:00.000-07:00

For my nephew's 16th birthday, Tony's brother hosted an asian themed party. Not only were all of the decorations and food asian themed, but so were all of the guests. We all dressed up and enjoyed every minute of it.

Dressing up, however, was a total surprise to Chase, the birthday boy. It was hilarious when he walked in the door and saw all of us. He didn't recognize Tony at all.

A fun time was had by all. Happy 16th Birthday Chase!!!

Our Haunted Home

2011-10-31T14:00:00.000-07:00

I think I have pretty much decorated the inside of our home like I want it for Halloween...so it is now time to start moving outside. We hope to eventually have an uber-spooky house for trick-or-treat fright.

Here is the start to our spookiness. The web and big spider cost a whopping $12. Not too bad for our first start.

Man, I love Halloween! Have a safe and happy one!!!

Friday Date "Fright"

2011-10-31T11:27:00.000-07:00

Tony and I had a fantastic date night on Friday. If you remember, my resolution for this year was to go on a date with Tony once a month. I am proud to say I've made it so far...but the next two months will prove to be a challenge.

We made this date a pretty big one. We used the hotel stay that we won at Chips for Charity...a free night at the Marriot Courtyard.

We had dinner at The Melting Pot. This wasn't my first time, but it was Tony's. We both enjoyed the meal, but it sucks to have a teeny tiny tummy and not be able to eat all of that yummy food. By the time the dessert came, I thought I was going to pop.

After dinner, we walked to the Bricktown Coca-Cola Event Center to see if the new Pitch Black, Bricktown Haunted Warehouse could scare us. Unfortunately, it wasn't that scary, but we had a GREAT time laughing at the two girls in our group. They were scared out of their mind.

We were done with the haunted house by 9, so we decided to catch a movie at The Harkins. We saw the new Justin Timberlake movie, In Time. It was a really good movie. The premise is pretty neat...everyone stops aging at 25 years old and then you have one more year live. The currency is time, so you buy things with time and get paid in time...everyone is basically working to live longer than the one year they have left.

It was a very full night, but we had so much fun! We laughed and enjoyed each other's company the whole night.

Aliens, Werewolfs and Vampires....OH MY!

2011-10-28T09:04:00.000-07:00

It is obvious the genre of books that I really enjoy....Young Adult Sci-Fi. And these next two book reviews fit that perfectly.

The first is the Power of Six. This is the sequel to I Am Number Four. And it was a wonderful extension to the story. In fact, I think it was better than the first one. I love this book series and cannot wait to see them make this into a movie.

I've seen him on the news. Followed the stories about what happened in Ohio. John Smith, out there, on the run. To the world, he's a mystery. But to me . . . he's one of us.

Nine of us came here, but sometimes I wonder if time has changed us—if we all still believe in our mission. How can I know? There are six of us left. We're hiding, blending in, avoiding contact with one another . . . but our Legacies are developing, and soon we'll be equipped to fight. Is John Number Four, and is his appearance the sign I've been waiting for? And what about Number Five and Six? Could one of them be the raven-haired girl with the stormy eyes from my dreams? The girl with powers that are beyond anything I could ever imagine? The girl who may be strong enough to bring the six of us together?

They caught Number One in Malaysia.
Number Two in England.
And Number Three in Kenya.
They tried to catch Number Four in Ohio—and failed.

I am Number Seven. One of six still alive.

And I'm ready to fight.

The next book is The Accidental Werewolf. Although this one IS NOT young adult, it is sci-fi. But let me tell you, this is one action packed, silly, LOL, HOT, sensual story. It was a perfect fluff read and I am looking forward to reading more from this author.

When Marty Andrews gets bitten by a mutt, the hair on her legs starts growing at an alarming rate and her mood swings put her dream job as a cosmetic sales rep in serious jeopardy. Then a drool-worthy man shows up at her door claiming that he accidentally bit Marty. And since he's a werewolf, that means she is now, too... .

I am currently reading book 9 of the House of Night series...yep...vampires! I know, I know, I am so predictable!

Our Fall Break

2011-10-26T11:01:00.000-07:00

Last week was a pretty busy week.

Tuesday night, the JH girls got together for our annual PepperChop. This is one of my favorite events. Just a big group of girls popping the top off of peppers and dodging hot pepper seeds. It really is a lot of fun and a great moment to chit and chat and get to know everyone.

If you haven't placed your order for our Famous 6" Sub Sandwich, then you need to get on it. Click HERE for more information.

Wednesday morning, the kids and I drove to my sister's to spend a couple days with her family. She and her hubby are both teachers. Their Parent/Teacher Conferences were last week and she needed a babysitter. So, I the kids and I jumped at the chance to spend our fall break with Veronica and Collin.

We did get one day with my sister and her hubby, but otherwise, it was just me and the kiddos. And can I say, I sure am glad my kids are self sufficient. I forgot how tiring a baby can be. Don't get me wrong, I love that little girl and loved every minute I spent with her, but it's hard to relax when you aren't used to be around a baby.

On our day together Friday, we took the kiddos to The Great Pumpkin Patch. It was so nice outside and we had a lot of fun taking pictures of V at her first pumpkin patch.

I Leave You With This

2011-10-25T09:03:00.000-07:00

I know I owe you guys a good post, since it has been a week, but AGAIN...I am swamped with life. So, I will leave you with this precious picture of my niece. I will share more of our visit with my sister's family in the next couple of days. We had a great fall break!

JH Sub Sandwich Blitz 2011 is HERE!!!

2011-10-18T12:00:00.000-07:00

JH will be selling our Famous Sub Sandwiches November 4 & 5 at Mayfair Baptist Church from 11am - 2pm each day. Sandwiches are $6 and chips and drinks will also be available. You can pre-order any number of sandwiches and large orders can be delivered.

Click HERE or the logo above for more information on our subs and information on how to place your order. Proceeds from the sale of the sandwiches helps JH continue to make a positive impact on our community. Members volunteer at local organizations and fund grants to help provide vital services.

Catch-up Countdown

2011-10-17T08:50:00.000-07:00

I've been gone for so long, it would be virtually impossible (and a little boring) to do a post for each thing I would typically share with you. So, instead, I am going to do a Top 10 Countdown of the things that have happened in the last two weeks.

10. I read the book Twenty Times a Lady and then saw the loosely adapted movie What's Your Number. I loved them both, but the book and movie are not the same.

9. Breaking Dawn: Part 1 tickets went on sale! We have a group of 12 going this time around and we will be enjoying it in the Warren Balcony...of course! I am uber-excited and cannot wait to see this movie.

8. Our family saw the movie Courageous! It is a fantastic movie. It was developed and produced by the same group that made Facing the Giants and Fireproof. I feel so blessed by these movies and hope you have seen them all!

7. The company I work for has closed out Fiscal Year 2011. So along with closing out a crazy number of revenue entries, I was having to work absurd hours to get it all done. The lack of sleep has done a number me and I am still recovering.

6. Ashton's 5th Grade class is preparing for a week long trip to Camp Classen. Each student will cost $250, so in an effort to help parents offset the cost, we've been selling World's Finest Chocolate! Yum! YUM! I am happy to report, that we have officially sold 10 boxes and thanks to the help of family and friends, we will not be paying anything out of pocket for her to get to go.

5. I've done some Halloween decorating.

4. I am working on redecorating some in my home, but I am re-purposing things that I already have. Decorating on a budget. So, if you come over, you may see some "holes" in my decorations...just look around, you might find it being used some place else.

3. One such re-purposing is a Mirror Make-over. Check it out!

2. The kids and I saw the movie Footloose with our friends, Misty and Madi, on Saturday night! Let me tell you...this movie is FABULOUS! I have to confess, I was not going to see it. Who remakes such a classic movie like Footloose? Well, it was so much fun to watch. I smiled, sang and danced in my chair the entire movie! So. Much. Fun!

1. We had our family pictures taken in Bricktown yesterday. My friend Misty is working to build a photography business and she has such a very talented eye for it. I can't wait to see how they turned out...here is a sneak peek.

Now, that you are all caught up on my last few weeks of life, I will hopefully start feeling better and can stay caught up on my blogging.

Just a little bit longer....

2011-10-12T17:38:00.000-07:00

I know it has been over a week, but I am still technically on my hiatus. Sorry.

Between work, life and not feeling well, I just can't focus on blogging right now. So, I will leave you with this wonderfully sweet video to give you some warm fuzzies.

Hopefully, I will be back soon.

Hiatus

2011-10-04T08:57:00.001-07:00

I will be taking a short blogging hiatus this week...talk you all next week!

The Witch's Daughter by Paula Brackston

2011-09-30T06:30:00.000-07:00

This book had me anxiously awaiting the next time I was gonna get to read some more. I couldn't wait to find out more about Bess's life. Just as I thought I had it figured it out, more twists would be thrown in to the mix.

I think what I found as an undercurrent to the story, was how blocking ourselves off from relationships with others, is just as damaging as opening yourself up and being hurt by someone.

This is a perfect book for the Halloween season! And who doesn't love that cover?

My name is Elizabeth Anne Hawksmith, and my age is three hundred and eighty-four years. Each new settlement asks for a new journal, and so this Book of Shadows begins…

In the spring of 1628, the Witchfinder of Wessex finds himself a true Witch. As Bess Hawksmith watches her mother swing from the Hanging Tree she knows that only one man can save her from the same fate at the hands of the panicked mob: the Warlock Gideon Masters, and his Book of Shadows. Secluded at his cottage in the woods, Gideon instructs Bess in the Craft, awakening formidable powers she didn’t know she had and making her immortal. She couldn't have foreseen that even now, centuries later, he would be hunting her across time, determined to claim payment for saving her life.

In present-day England, Elizabeth has built a quiet life for herself, tending her garden and selling herbs and oils at the local farmers' market. But her solitude abruptly ends when a teenage girl called Tegan starts hanging around. Against her better judgment, Elizabeth begins teaching Tegan the ways of the Hedge Witch, in the process awakening memories—and demons—long thought forgotten.

Part historical romance, part modern fantasy, The Witch’s Daughter is a fresh, compelling take on the magical, yet dangerous world of Witches. Readers will long remember the fiercely independent heroine who survives plagues, wars, and the heartbreak that comes with immortality to remain true to herself, and protect the protégé she comes to love.

Tippy Toes

2011-09-29T06:30:00.000-07:00

See this?

That's me on my tippy toes. Because I can't kiss my boy on his forehead anymore unless I am on them.

Yep!

He's officially taller than I am. And by the looks of this picture, he is a lot taller.

67 inches to be exact.

I have no doubt, I might need a chair to give him proper kisses when he is full grown. But don't think it is beneath me to climb right on up on that needed chair!!

A momma has to be able to still kiss her baby, right?

Where Has All The Time Gone?

2011-09-28T14:10:00.000-07:00

Oh, that's right....all the new frickin' TV shows.

I am obsessed.

Tony is going crazy!

My DVR is surely going to crash.

Here is the line-up of what I record and try to watch each week...

Monday:
Terra Nova
The Lying Game
Hart of Dixie
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

Tuesday:
Ringer
Parenthood

Wednesday:
Suburgatory - Starts tonight!! on ABC
America's Next Top Model - This season is the All Stars!
Happy Endings
Revenge
Dance Moms

Thursday:
The Secret Circle
The Millionaire Matchmaker
Project Runway
Whitney
Prime Suspect

Friday:
A Gifted Man
Jessie (yes, this one is on Disney, but I can't help myself!)
Ghost Adventures

Saturday:
Nothing...believe it or not. Which I guess it is good that I have one day with nothing new recording. I have to have at least one day to watch all of those new shows that have recorded this week.

Sunday:
A Day of Rest

So, am I obsessed? Surely one of the new shows will fall out and I will stop watching it, right? I've already stopped recording Up All Night. So, at least that is one 30 minute show I don't watch.

Are you as obsessed as I am? Please tell me I am not alone.

A Girl's Saturday

2011-09-28T06:30:00.000-07:00

Ashton and I enjoyed a wonderful day together on Saturday. Tony was at the fire station and Quinn was at a youth retreat.

We filled our time by visiting the new Outlet Shoppes of Oklahoma City. It is so nice to have such a beautiful outlet mall in OKC. Since the fair was in town, it wasn't busy and we went early in the day, so it was nice and cool outside.

We only did window shopping so we were good girls and didn't spend any money. Although if I would have had money, I'm sure I would've had no problem spending it out there.

Later that afternoon, we went to see Dolphin Tale. This is the movie about the dolphin, Winter, who loses her tail and is eventually given a prosthetic tail. (btw...Winter plays herself in the movie...which is pretty cool.)

This movie was amazing. It was so inspirational and uplifting. We didn't cry, but we did tear up. If you are looking for a movie that will leave you feeling all warm and fuzzy, this is the one. (And Harry Connick, Jr. is a pretty good reason to see this movie too! Dang, that man is goodlookin'!)

It was great day together. We always enjoy each other's company and love spending time just the two of us.

Gone Baby Gone

2011-09-27T06:30:00.000-07:00

Last Tuesday night, Ashton and I both made the decision to cut our hair off. I have been talking about it for a months now, but just hadn't made the actual decision to do it. So, while I was teasing Ashton about it, I told her she should cut hers too. And believe it or not, she agreed.

So, at our appointment on Wednesday, we surprised Gina and told her she was gonna get to chop it all off.

Ashton went with a cut bob and some bangs.

And I went all out pixie.

We both love our changes and are VERY glad we did it. Especially me. It is making my mornings so much easier. I've just been too tired to fix long hair. I totally understand why it is normal for older women to cut their hair short. When your arms hurt, it is just too painful to use them to fix your hair.

It was a fun evening of makeovers!

It's a Band Thing

2011-09-26T10:39:00.000-07:00

Since having two kids, we have been VERY lucky parents. Neither of the kids have had activities that overlapped each other. So, we have not had to run two kids in two different directions at the same time.

That is...UNTIL NOW.

Eighth Grade band is just like a sport. They will play at games, events and even SHS Graduation. Last week was our first week with a taste of what it's like to be "normal" parent with kids going every different direction.

Tuesday, Ashton and I enjoyed a wonderful fall football game...Highland West JH vs. Highland East JH. It was so much fun to be in the bleachers watching the game, the cheerleaders and enjoying the band.

I could tell Quinn really enjoyed himself. I sure hope he does like it, because 9th Grade Band (High School) will be even more eventful for him.

Thursday night they played at the Southmoore HS vs. Muskogee HS game. A real taste of what HS band is all about. He was exhausted to have to be out late on a school night, but he said he had fun (aside from the tongue incident that you can read about by clicking HERE).

Being at the game really made me realize how much I enjoy JH and HS football. There is just something fantastic in the cool, fall air.

The Power of We

2011-09-23T14:30:00.000-07:00

Avaya is my employeer and they have released this fantastic rap! I love it and will now be singing A-A-Avaya all day long!

Viewer Descretion is Advised

2011-09-23T07:39:00.000-07:00

***This is a little gross, so if you are squeamish, you may want to avoid this post.

We all have a frenum...did you know that? Do you know what a frenum is? Well, I didn't until we looked it up this morning.

fre·num /ˈfrinəm/[free-nuhm]
noun, plural -na /-nə/
a fold of membrane that checks or restrains the motion of a part, as the fold on the underside of the tongue.

Quinn was born pretty much tongue tied. It wasn't severe, but enough that he can't (or couldn't) stick his tongue out past his lips.

Well, that is no longer the case, but the untying of his tongue, was not intentional. You see, Quinn plays the trumpet. Last night was 8th Grade Band night where the band got to play with the Southmoore High School band. While playing in the bleachers, an accident happened and his trumpet got bumped. Well, it shoved the mouth piece into his mouth and under his tongue.

EW.

Yep...you guessed it. The bump caused the trumpet to slice his frenum...ouch! It's actually pretty gross. The picture didn't come through clear enough, but I think you can get the idea.

Luckily, injuries in the mouth heal rather quickly. But until then, eating, drinking and talking is a bit painful for him.

I'm sure he will look back on this and laugh one day...especially when the first girl he kisses tells him he is a good kisser!!!!

Giveaway at Picky Palate

2011-09-23T07:05:00.001-07:00

There is a great giveaway over at Picky Palate today! And in the giveaway is an Amazon Kindle.

Go over there and check it out. You can click on the image above to get to the site.

Five for Friday

2011-09-23T06:30:00.000-07:00

Fall is my favorite season. Aside from the shorter days, I don't think there is much that I don't like about fall. So, this week's Five for Friday is in honor of the first day of Fall!!! Here is a list of my Five Fall Favorites!!!

1. Halloween
This is by far my favorite holiday! I love the decorations and can't wait to actually get my house all decorated up.

2. Thanksgiving Weekend
Who doesn't love a 4 day weekend? And this year, I am taking Wednesday off as well, so I will get a blessed 5 day weekend!! Not to mention the Thanksgiving Day Parades!! It isn't Thanksgiving without them.

3. Crisp Fall Mornings/Warm Fall Evenings
The weather is so nice this time year as the last warmth of Summer shares it's rays with us.

4. Fall Foods
I love candy corn, caramel apples, apple dumplings, pumpkin pie, etc.

5. Fall Fashions
Fall clothes are comfy and warm, but there isn't so much to them that you feel completely bundled up! I especially love that I get to pull out my boots!!!

What are your fall favorites?

The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver

2011-09-22T08:30:00.000-07:00

This book is a beautiful, dramatic piece of fiction. Although the story is not true, the events that took place in the Congo most definitely are.

It is wonderfully written and has a way of taking you through the three decades in the lives of these women.

This is definitely a recommended read.

The Poisonwood Bible is a story told by the wife and four daughters of Nathan Price, a fierce, evangelical Baptist who takes his family and mission to the Belgian Congo in 1959. They carry with them everything they believe they will need from home, but soon find that all of it — from garden seeds to Scripture — is calamitously transformed on African soil. What follows is a suspenseful epic of one family's tragic undoing and remarkable reconstruction over the course of three decades in postcolonial Africa.

From the Web Wednesday

2011-09-21T10:30:00.000-07:00

This completely warms my cockles and cracks me up. I could watch this guy over, and over, and over.

Like Mother, Like Daughter

2011-09-21T06:30:00.000-07:00

Ashton is more and more like me every day. Specifically in two wonderful ways...

1. She can't look at an empty box and just see an empty box. Both us always look for potential craftiness in just about everything we look at.

-and-

2. She thinks of other first. She is constantly wanting to make or buy things for others.

So, when I got a package a few weeks back, Ashton immediately took the box and started crafting it up. The box quickly became a new home for Sookie. Ashton has named it the Cat Dome. It even has bling on it.

It is under one of our end tables and Sookie loves it. Especially if she is feeling picked on. She'll go in there to hide from us so we can't sneak up on her anymore.

And everytime I see her hangin' out in her Cat Dome, I have a sense of pride in my daughter in her warm, loving and creative spirit.

Favorite Things Swap

2011-09-20T08:15:00.000-07:00

A couple weeks ago, I told you about The Favorite Things Swap that I had joined over at Join the Gossip. I was paired up with Jodi at Jodi Bean's Blog. It has been a lot of fun making a new blog friend and getting to share my favorite things with her.

I got my package from Jodi on Saturday and it was fun and exciting to see what I got.

She sent me a cute Bless Our Home door hanger, a mini scrapbook, a beautiful fall Yankee magazine, pretzel M&Ms and an adorable ring that she made. I definitely think she is a girl after my own heart.

My favorite things I shared with Jodi are...

...my favorite OPI Nail Polish, Chocolate, Chic Flicks and a fabulous foot scrubber.

I really enjoyed the swap and will definitely sign up to do it again next time.

Giveaway at Eighteen25

2011-09-20T08:10:00.000-07:00

You guys know just how much I love Halloween. The wonderful ladies at Eighteen25 are having a giveaway that if you love Halloween, you just cannot miss it.

So, check out the giveaway by clicking HERE.

Becky's Buys - Birchbox

2011-09-19T13:50:00.001-07:00

A couple months ago, my friend Nicole told me about Birchbox. It is an online beauty site that has a monthly samples box that you can get for $10. I was a skeptical at first, but after Nicole got her first box, I immediately signed up.

Well....I finally got my first box this weekend. First of all, I love getting stuff in the mail. And to have it be beauty based..hot dog!!!

It was so fun to open and play with the stuff they sent. Here is a picture of the box that they sent out for September.

In the box was...

AHAVA Mineral Hand Cream
blinc Mascara
Incoco Nail Polish Applique
Jouer Lip Enhancer
The Lash Card
Salvatore Ferragamo Attimo L'Eau Florale
- plus - a cute little friendship bracelet.

Fun, fun, fun!!!

There are still a few things that I used yet, but so far, I really like it all. (The AHAVA Hand Cream is fantastic.)

If you are interested in getting a monthly box from Birchbox, leave me a comment. That way I can refer you to their site and get referral points. I can't wait to see what I get next month.

Five for Friday

2011-09-16T06:30:00.000-07:00

The Great State Fair of Oklahoma started yesterday, so I thought I would dedicate this Friday's list to my favorite things at the fair!!

Five Fair Favorites
1. Poncho Dogs
These are not your ordinary corn dogs. And...not all dogs at the fair are created equal, we make sure we are getting the right ones!

2. Roasted Corn
I love the hot, sweet kernels and the butter dripping off my elbows!

3. Silver Dollar Cinnamon Roles
Uh huh!

4. People Watching
There is nothing quiet as entertaining than the people you see at the fair. Love, love, love it.

And last but not least....
5. RAIN!!!
It never fails, when the fair rolls into town, it inevitably brings the rain. And this year, the rain is a welcome sight!!!

So, what do you love about the fair?

Can You?

2011-09-14T06:00:00.000-07:00

I will be the first to admit that Tony and I are weird. We have games that we play that make me question whether other couples do this type of thing too.

Well, last night, Tony and I played one such game. So, I thought I would pose the questions to you too.

But first...you must vow, not to GOOGLE for the answers. Tony and I were answering these off our own memory with no internet help. So, I expect you to do the same. Good luck!!!

Can you...

....name all 7 Dwarfs?

....name the Brady Bunch characters?

....name the Reindeer?

....name the characters in Dukes of Hazard?

....name the characters on Three's Company?

....name the characters on Beverly Hillbillies?

....name the characters in Jungle Book?

So? How did you do?

Is this something that you and your spouse do sometimes? Quiz each other on completely useless trivia???

Plan "B"

2011-09-13T11:23:00.000-07:00

I saw my doctor today and since Plan "A" didn't work, it is now on to Plan "B".

And for the sake of complete transparency, I am VERY VERY nervous about Plan "B".

Steroids.

Yep! I just said steroids.

The medicine is a corticosteroid which is used to help the body maintain the proper balance of water and minerals. The goal with this medicine to increase the volume in my veins.

But I am scared to death that it will also increase the volume in my ARSE. We have all known people on steroids and how much weight it caused them to gain and how puffy they looked. I haven't spent the last 22 months losing and working to keep the weight off, only to take a new medication that will make me gain it back.

I will take a half dose for the next week and then at the end of that, I am to call my doctor and let him know how it is going. Then I will go to the full dose. So, we shall see.

I have a 70'ish' percent chance that this will work. So, if it doesn't, I guess it is on to Plan "C".

Friends to Walk With

2011-09-12T10:28:00.001-07:00

My friend, Jeana, and her kids, Aub and Bro, moved to our side of town last year and we were all excited that her kids would get to go to the same school as Ash. So, when school started and I was working from home, we invited Aub to walk to school with Ash in the mornings.

Aub was pretty nervous the first time, but I think she grew up about 30 years after that first day. Jean said she even passed up on the Happy Meal a few days later. It is amazing how quickly our kids can become SO independent.

I know Ash has enjoyed having a friend to walk with.

Five for Friday

2011-09-09T07:32:00.000-07:00

Do you have any silly, little things that you just cannot do? No matter how hard you try? No matter how much practice? They are just things that are beyond your ability. Well...I DO! And some of them are so simple, it is ridiculous that I can't do them.

Five Things I Just CAN'T Do
1. I can't play an instrument. Unless you count chopsticks on the piano.

2. I can't whistle. I can a high pitched screeching sound, but I can't really call it whistling.

3. I can't raise only one eye brow. Tony can do this and it just irritates that snot out of me. It is a great way to make a face at someone and I just can't do it.

4. I can't ride a bike. I was able to as a kid, but the ability has eluded me since becoming an adult. Tony and the kids swear they are gonna teach me how, but I am so afraid.

5. I can't walk in a straight line. No kidding. I better not be asked to walk the line for a sobriety test...I will fail. If you walk next to me, I will almost always end up bumping into you. You should see me on a treadmill...It is a very funny site.

So, what can you not do?

Another Wine and Canvas Night!

2011-09-07T13:35:00.000-07:00

Ashton is an extremely creative little girl. If she can get her hands on a blank canvas, blank piece of paper, anything blank...and add paint, stickers, glitter, glue, etc, etc, etc, to it, she will.

After my mom and I did Wine and Canvas back in June, Ashton was adamant that she wanted to go. Then in July, they ran another Groupon and I jumped all over it.

Ashton picked out the painting we got to do and we were all booked and ready to go.

She did fantastic. She did get frustrated, because she is a type A and her painting didn't look exactly like the example.

So, once she decided to let her creativity flow and do her own thing, she started having a blast.

She really wants to do it again, but has decided that Momma (that would be me) should do a date with Dad and Quinn and take them both painting.

If you don't know about Wine and Canvas, you can visit there website by clicking HERE. It really is a fun night. Maybe one of these days, I'll actually partake in the wine portion of the night...wink, wink.

Our Labor Day Weekend

2011-09-07T06:45:00.000-07:00

We had an excellent weekend visiting with my sister and her family, my aunt and my 2nd cousin. I hope you had a great extended weekend too.

Five for Friday

2011-09-02T07:08:00.000-07:00

That's right! Five for Friday is BAAAACCCKKK!

How best to kick off a 3 day weekend than with a list of the five things I plan to do.

1. Tonight we are kicking off the weekend with a girls night. Tony is at work and Quinn is staying at a friends, so I'm sure Ashton and I will be able to find something awesome to fill our time.

2. My favorite niece and nephew are coming in this weekend! Of course, I am looking forward to seeing my sis and b-i-l too, but those kiddos will be the highlight of my weekend.

3. We will spend Sunday at my parent's house in Shawnee and the weather is supposed to be beautiful.

4. Monday's temperatures are supposed to be in the 80's so I plan on enjoying a little shopping. I thought maybe we could even venture out to the new outlet mall.

5. Ashton and I are doing Wine and Canvas together on Monday night. I can't wait to share our pictures with you. Lots of momma/daughter time this weekend.

Quote of the Day

2011-09-02T04:05:00.001-07:00

Last night, News Channel 4 did a story about your rights when it comes to being evacuated from your home during wildfires. They interviewed an attorney that said something that I couldn't help but share with you guys today....

"People have the constitutional right to be as stupid as they want to be."

Happy Friday Everyone!!!

From the Web Wednesday

2011-08-31T06:56:00.001-07:00

I'm exhausted after watching this poor little guy!

The Forgotten Gardne by Kate Morton

2011-08-30T18:30:00.000-07:00

So, I have another new book to tell you about....The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton.

I lovingly share this with you, because this book was a joy to read. The story spans 4 generations of women focusing on the early 1900's, 1975 and 2005. It was so neat to see how the lives of these women intertwine and develop into this beautiful mystery.

This book is now on my favorites list. It was a long one, so be patient with yourself, but I think it is worth reading and I highly recommend it.

An unforgettable new novel that transports the reader from the back alleys of poverty of pre-World War I London to the shores of colonial Australia where so many made a fresh start, and back to the windswept coast of Cornwall, England, past and present A tiny girl is abandoned on a ship headed for Australia in 1913. She arrives completely alone with nothing but a small suitcase containing a few clothes and a single book — a beautiful volume of fairy tales. She is taken in by the dockmaster and his wife and raised as their own. On her twenty-first birthday they tell her the truth, and with her sense of self shattered and with very little to go on, "Nell" sets out on a journey to England to try to trace her story, to fi nd her real identity. Her quest leads her to Blackhurst Manor on the Cornish coast and the secrets of the doomed Mountrachet family. But it is not until her granddaughter, Cassandra, takes up the search after Nell's death that all the pieces of the puzzle are assembled. At Cliff Cottage, on the grounds of Blackhurst Manor, Cassandra discovers the forgotten garden of the book's title and is able to unlock the secrets of the beautiful book of fairy tales. This is a novel of outer and inner journeys and an homage to the power of storytelling. The Forgotten Garden is fi lled with unforgettable characters who weave their way through its... .

Join the Gossip

2011-08-30T08:06:00.000-07:00

Ladies...my friend Nicole shared this blog with me that she had come across. It's called Join the Gossip. Well, this lady is doing the funnest swap...You can click HERE to check it out. I've joined the swap and cannot wait. Check it out and join too!!!

And follow her blog...it is a lot of fun. I've enjoyed the reading I've done today.

...you are my child

2011-08-29T11:23:00.001-07:00

I saw this on a blog I stalk and I couldn't help but share it. There is a free printable version too. Click HERE to get yours...

Keeping the Faith

2011-08-26T11:22:00.000-07:00

Well, for the last week, I have been taking a half dose (10mg) of the new medication. Today was officially my first day on the full dose (20mg). Within an hour of taking it, I was tired, lethargic and couldn't even stand without stumbling.

This was obviously not the intended result so I called the doctor and left a message for the nurse. After a few hours, the nurse called back and gathered all of the necessary facts. She told me if I didn't hear from her by 3pm, to call her back. Within two minutes of hanging up, the phone rang and it was the nurse again. She said the doctor wanted me to go back to the half dose until I come back at my next appointment.

After the call, I returned to the couch and was somewhat happy with the decision. Ten minutes later though, my phone was ringing again. And this time it was the doctor. He asked a few questions about how I had been feeling on the new medicine and he made the decision that it wasn't working, so there was no point in continuing with it.

He said he would review my file over the weekend and get back with me next week. My favorite part of the conversation though, was when he said "Don't Despair. We will find something that works." I truly feel like he is working on my side and has a true interest in helping me find relief. I have complete faith that he the right specialist to help me find my way to the light.

Ten Days of Me - One Picture of Me

2011-08-26T06:30:00.000-07:00

one picture of me

Two Books I Recommend

2011-08-25T12:30:00.000-07:00

I have a couple new books to tell you about...and they are both so very different from each other, but I loved them both VERY, VERY much!

The first book is The Book Thief by Markus Zusak. This is a fantastic story set in WWII Germany. The interesting twist to the story though is the narrator...it is narrated by The Grim Reaper. But more than that, the book really looks at how books can bring people together and heal the soul in a very tough time.

This is a must read and one that I plan to add to my collection.

It’s just a small story really, about among other things: a girl, some words, an accordionist, some fanatical Germans, a Jewish fist-fighter, and quite a lot of thievery. . . .
Set during World War II in Germany, Markus Zusak’s groundbreaking new novel is the story of Liesel Meminger, a foster girl living outside of Munich. Liesel scratches out a meager existence for herself by stealing when she encounters something she can’t resist–books. With the help of her accordion-playing foster father, she learns to read and shares her stolen books with her neighbors during bombing raids as well as with the Jewish man hidden in her basement before he is marched to Dachau.

The second book is Insatiable by Meg Cabot. O. M. G. This story was great. The main character Meena is sick and tired of vampires. But just before she pitches for the head writers job at the daytime drama series she is a writer for, her arch nemesis gets the job and guess what?? Vampires are going to be the main story.

But wait it gets better...Meena is falling in love. Little does she know that her "Prince" is actually the "Prince of Darkness". This story is funny, romantic and has a bit of excitement too. This book would make a fantastic movie and I hope one day I get to see it on the big screen.

Sick of hearing about vampires? So is Meena Harper.
But her bosses are making her write about them anyway, even though Meena doesn't believe in them.

Not that Meena isn't familiar with the supernatural. See, Meena Harper knows how you're going to die. (Not that you're going to believe her. No one ever does.)

But not even Meena's precognition can prepare her for what happens when she meets—then makes the mistake of falling in love with—Lucien Antonescu, a modern-day prince with a bit of a dark side. It's a dark side a lot of people, like an ancient society of vampire hunters, would prefer to see him dead for.

The problem is, Lucien's already dead. Maybe that's why he's the first guy Meena's ever met whom she could see herself having a future with. See, while Meena's always been able to see everyone else's future, she's never been able look into her own.

And while Lucien seems like everything Meena has ever dreamed of in a boyfriend, he might turn out to be more like a nightmare.

Now might be a good time for Meena to start learning to predict her own future…

If she even has one.

Ten Days of Me - Two Songs

2011-08-25T06:30:00.000-07:00

I have found that there are so many songs, that when I hear them, they illicit many different memories and can take me to specific periods in my life. For instance, Steve Miller Band's Greatest Hits takes me swirling back to my senior year of high school. I am 18 all over again.

So, picking two songs was a tough one too. To be honest, this challenge, as a whole, has been kind of difficult.

two songs
1. In Your Eyes - Peter Gabriel
This song takes me back to the first few years of being with Tony. It was in Say Anything with Jon Cusak and Ione Skye. We watched this movie a lot our first few years and so the song kind of became "our song".

2. Give Myself to You - Train
This song takes me back about five years. Tony and I were going through a rough patch in our marriage and I heard this song on the radio one day and it really struck a cord with me. It reminded me that although I was having difficulties finding where I fit in my life and my marriage, I knew whole-heartedly, that when I got it straightened out, I was going to be able to give myself to Tony.